What Women Need - Inspired by Craigslist daters

This post was inspired By Craigslist

Last night, I was browsing the local Craigslist dating forum, and there were a few posts ranting back and forth about the problem with women, and how they only want guys with money, and how they are all princesses.

It occurred to me that in this day of instant information, guys still haven’t answered the question...

What do women REALLY want?

What do women NEED that eclipses money or power?
Oh, I’ll tell you.
But first, tough love time...

So you don’t have a girl.
It isn’t because you don’t have the money to spoil her.
It isn’t because you aren’t a famous actor or a rock star.
It isn’t because you don’t ride a Harley or have the body of an Adonis.

Those are just excuses you give yourself to make it OK for your ego to survive without the success that you want. But it’s BS, and I don’t trade in BS, so forget those excuses.

The truth is...
You don’t have a girl because you don’t create *emotional connections* with women!
All women respond to the one thing over looks, power, wealth, fame... They respond to a guy who can make them laugh, make them cry, make them feel bliss in every bone of their body, make them scream and rage, make them swoon and purr. A guy who knows her heart, and how to make it tick, will never be short of women.

All you need to do, is to make her feel.
But you don’t.
You dial yourself down.
You make her comfortable.
You turn off your sexuality.
You be her friend.
You be... nice.
And you wonder why that ugly jerk has a hot girlfriend and you don't? Because that jerk can give her the emotional connection she needs, and you, Mr. Nice, can only make her feel safe. She doesn't want safety and comfort, she wants a friggen emotional roller coaster! So when you are writing a profile, don’t turn yourself down! Instead, crank it up to 11! Write a funny profile, write passionately about everything in your life, talk about adventures and danger... You have nothing to lose.

Have a good week!

Dylan

PS. Note, don’t talk about sex in your emails and especially in your profile. It’s a huge red flag for women, trust me! You want sensuality, not sexuality. I’ll talk more about that one later though, but for now, don’t even mention sex.

PPS. There will be examples of what I’ve just talked about in the Online Casanova book. I’m hoping to have it out by the end of the week.