Four Compliments You Shouldn't Use

Nice


Hot


Cute


Sexy

Those are the four compliments that you should never give a girl.

And why not? They are perfectly valid compliments, and girls like to hear nice things said about them right?

Well, yes, except the fact that she hears all those things from a dozen guys a day. Stacking your lame compliments to the list really gets you nowhere. In fact, it tells her that you are just as uncreative as the other dozen guys that told her more or less the same thing.

Instead, if you want to compliment her, this is how it's done.

“You have very kissable lips.” (a personal favorite)

“You have the most sincere, kind eyes. I can’t help but keep going back to look at them.”

“That’s the most sinful smile I’ve ever seen. God only knows what you were thinking when that picture was taken.”

“Your skin is gorgeous, smooth, flawless. It glows!”

“You have laughter in your eyes and in your smile. I bet you are a fantastic person to hang out with.”

“I love your look. You have a playful innocence about you that’s probably lost on most. I bet you get tired of hearing ‘great bod’ or ‘nice bikini’ from the guys who email you.”

So, what are you really doing with these compliments? You aren’t just giving her superficial validation, any guy can do that. You are doing two very special and very powerful things.

First, you are showing her that you are better than the average guy, because you are insightful enough to be able to recognize those deeper qualities in her, even from a still picture, and appreciate those little things more than her big rack or curvy ass.

Secondly, you are showing her an image of how she perceives herself unconsciously, who she really wants to be, and valuing her as she needs to be valued. This is critical for building attraction with you, and is dealt with heavily in the Online Casanova book. There is too much to explain here, but mirroring her True Image and showing her that you understand her soul, is the most powerful way to get her to fall in love with you.

This is the tip of an iceberg.
Use it wisely.

Dylan